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Non-Verbal Autism and Communication: Practical Tips to Support Your Child

Henry Au

As parents, one of the biggest concerns we have is how to support our child’s communication skills. If your child is seven years old, attending elementary school, and not speaking at all, it can be incredibly challenging to navigate their needs and emotions. When children primarily rely on gestures like grabbing hands, crying, or even engaging in aggressive behaviors like hitting or breaking things to communicate, it’s understandable to feel overwhelmed. The good news is that there are practical, effective strategies you can implement to help your child develop communication skills and reduce frustration-driven behaviors.



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Why Modeling Language is Key for Non-Verbal Autism


One of the most essential steps in encouraging your child to communicate is to actively model words and language for them. When we consistently expose our children to meaningful language in everyday situations, we help them build a connection between words and their desires, emotions, and needs.


By focusing on situations that are highly motivating—such as times when your child wants a favorite snack, needs help with a toy, or is eager to go outside—we create natural opportunities for them to learn and practice using words or alternative forms of communication.


Methods to Encourage Communication


There are several ways to introduce and model communication for your child, even if they are currently non-speaking or have limited verbal abilities. Below are some effective strategies:


1. Spoken Words


If your child has the ability to imitate sounds or words, encouraging verbal communication is a great first step. You can do this by:


- Repeating key words in a slow, clear, and consistent manner.


- Using simple words or phrases such as “help,” “more,” “open,” or “go.”


- Providing exaggerated facial expressions and gestures to reinforce meaning.


- Celebrating and reinforcing any attempts at vocalization, even if they are not perfect.


2. AAC (Alternative Augmentative Communication) Devices


For children who struggle with verbal speech, AAC devices can provide an excellent alternative means of communication. These devices often come in the form of tablets or specialized speech-generating apps that allow children to select icons that produce spoken words.


- To introduce an AAC device, model its use by pressing the icons yourself and saying the corresponding word out loud in front of your child.


- Encourage your child to use the device by helping them select icons related to their immediate wants and needs.


- Reinforce their attempts by promptly responding to their communication (e.g., if they tap on “drink,” immediately offer them a drink).


3. Sign Language


- Sign language can be an effective communication tool, particularly for children who have difficulty with verbal speech or get easily distracted by technology.


- Start with basic, high-frequency signs such as “more,” “help,” “eat,” and “stop.”


- Use hand-over-hand guidance if your child needs assistance learning the signs.


- Pair signs with spoken words to reinforce their meaning.


- Encourage family members, teachers, and caregivers to use the signs consistently to increase your child’s exposure.


4. PECS (Picture Exchange Communication System)


- PECS is another excellent option for children who struggle with verbal communication. This system allows children to use visual cards to express their needs and feelings by handing a picture to another person.


- Begin with simple, motivating items such as a picture of a favorite toy or snack.


- Teach your child to exchange the picture in order to receive the item they desire.


- Gradually expand the system to include more complex requests and feelings (e.g., “I want to play outside” or “I feel tired”).


Choosing the Right Starting Point


Regardless of the communication method you choose, it’s important to start with a few simple, highly functional words or symbols that your child will use daily. Words like “help,” “more,” “go,” and “stop” are particularly useful because they allow your child to exert control over their environment in a socially appropriate way.


Final Thoughts on Supporting a Child with Non-Verbal Autism


Helping your child develop communication skills takes patience, consistency, and encouragement. By modeling language, introducing alternative communication methods, and reinforcing their efforts, you can significantly improve their ability to express themselves in a way that reduces frustration and enhances their overall well-being.


Remember, every child is unique, and progress may take time. Celebrate small victories along the way, and remain open to trying different strategies until you find the ones that work best for your child. With the right support, your child can develop meaningful communication skills that enrich their daily life and relationships.


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